coffee Convos

When I think of confidence, three words come to mind:

Bold, Brilliant and Dependable.

Would you believe in somebody that is anything less than your views of perfection. Without confidence, there will be nothing for you to trust your instincts on.

Perfection is confidence in disguise.

Let’s think in a different perspective for once, shall we?

You’ve just acquired a large sum of money. How you got it? That’s up to you. The first thing you do is pay off your debt.

Whether it’s school, credit cards, or a loan. You just decide to pay back all your debt in life up until that present moment.

After you did that, you decided to spend some on yourself. You know, for self-care reasons we don’t need details on.

Once you’ve spent the money on your needs, you decide to contact a person who is able to keep your money generating in the long run. A stock broker.

But you’ve never met, nor understood anything about the stock market. So a friend referred you to their stock broker and you set up an appointment to consult on all things that will generate your money and how it will work.

The foundation of things.

The stock broker walked into the meeting with their shoulders back, posture straight with a powerful kick to their stride. They had an answer to all your questions on top of having a written plan for where your money will be going, and how it will be accumulating over the next years.

Would you trust somebody with this much confidence with your money? Somebody who is educated in their field, and somebody your friend has confidence in as well to give their money to?

I’m not too sure about you, but I would trust somebody with this much confidence.

They know their job, they’re able to educate you on where your goals and money will be going in the long run. On top of that, you believe they’re perfection in disguise.

It’s too good to be true…

Confidence is apart of life. Whether we recognize it or not.

That’s why, with the utmost confidence in my body, I can say that the most confident person I know, is me.

I’ve learned to trust myself, trust my decision making and most of all, I’ve learned to educate myself on basic knowledge in things that I would like to explore.

I’ve learned, to become perfect in my eyes, I need to become confident.

I want to be what others aspire to become. I would like to be confident in what I do, whether people are watching me or not. I want to become confident in my abilities, that nobody will doubt my knowledge in it. The confidence in me, is what I could only wish to have looked up to when growing up.

So, is it conceited to say that I’m the most confident person I know? Maybe.

But that’s completely fine with me. I’ve had to learn to become my own role model through trial and error.

Bold, brilliant and dependable. Confidence is all about trusting yourself and your abilities in everything you do.

So, whether it’s a role model that emits confidence or it’s yourself, remember. Confidence is apart of life, and nothing within yourself is able to create more confidence than trusting your instincts in anything you do.

Until next time,

Sweet T.